When the lives of many challenges, the desire for control, but it can be, of course. It is the illusion that if we are controlling events, and other ourselves, we are sure, successfully and safely. Unfortunately, the opposite is the case. More close, we handle, and handle, the more we will be out of control.
Especially in relationships, in which people feel vulnerable, where emotions are much higher and the high stakes, the desire for control. In the first of May, are owned by greed, all want to know what the partner dictate what they can or can not. Possessive often intensified. The power struggles erupt. It is the feeling that the person belongs to you and you have the right to express their choice and how their own lives.
It dominates the person and the freedom to lose, and well-being controlled. Although the prevalence can be said they did so out of love for the well-being of the partners, the bottom line is that anger and fear, it seems that the desire to control operations. Love always honour and respect the other, there is a person in the place of who they are, in their own change and discovery. It is not a question of adapting to a different life, but also to improve.
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